It always comes down to the same thing with us: Time.
He doesn't have enough of it. Lives with her. Sees her everyday. Sees me for 2/3 days out of every 2 months. Still wants to make sure to spend time with her. Yet I'm the one who is being selfish. Not really sure how that works.
I deserve my own someone. Not her someone. He won't be my someone and I'm too selfish to think he should spend time with me.
Over it sometimes.